More than two months have passed since police arrested a man accused of sexually abusing his nine-year-old niece-by-marriage. The child’s mother now says her daughter’s condition has worsened. In addition, the family struggles to access basic necessities such as nappies and food.
The 47-year-old accused, known to People’s Post, remains in custody. He appeared in Wynberg Magistrates’ Court in June, where bail was denied. Authorities scheduled his next court appearance for Thursday, 14 August, via virtual proceedings.
family struggles amid trauma and limited support
At the time of the abuse, the child lived with her aunt and uncle in Imizamo Yethu, Hout Bay. Meanwhile, her mother received treatment in the Eastern Cape. When she returned to Cape Town and learned about her daughter’s injuries, she sought help at Victoria Hospital. Doctors confirmed injuries consistent with penetration. They referred the child for counselling and forensic examination.
However, the mother says the child’s health remains at serious risk.
“She has a sore underneath, and she leaks. Doctors say the damage affects her womb,” she told People’s Post.
“If it doesn’t heal, they may have to remove it. That’s my biggest fear. She’s only a child.”
Because of her injuries, the child now depends on adult nappies, which are expensive and hard to replace regularly.
“The hospital gave us maternity pads, but they don’t suffice. I have no income and receive only a child grant. Everything feels overwhelming.”
The family lives in a one-room shack. The mother’s 19-year-old son stayed alone while she was away. He expressed frustration and regret.
“This whole thing angers me,” he said, voice cracking.
“If she had lived with me, my sister would have been safe.”
Support services and official responses
The Western Cape Department of Health and Wellness responded to inquiries from People’s Post. It confirmed that facilities like the Thuthuzela Care Centre at Victoria Hospital provide trauma counselling, medical care, and referrals based on individual needs.
In cases involving compounded trauma, doctors may refer survivors to clinical psychologists. Serious injuries often lead to referral at specialist hospitals such as the Red Cross War Memorial Children’s Hospital.
However, the department clarified that hospitals cannot cover long-term sanitary needs. Instead, families must contact the Department of Social Development or local NGOs for this support.
Community support and legal hopes
Ward councillor Rob Quintas learned about the case while on leave abroad. He expressed horror and sadness over the child’s ongoing trauma.
“Our society has no place for those who harm children,” Quintas said.
“I pray the alleged abuser faces justice quickly.”
Quintas advised the family to contact Community Cohesion, a Hout Bay organisation experienced in trauma support and crisis counselling.
“They are a vital resource, well placed to assist in situations like this. My door remains open to help wherever possible.”
A mother’s plea for urgent care
As the legal process continues, the mother’s main concern is her daughter’s urgent medical and emotional care.
“She’s still in pain. She can’t sleep. She’s changed. And I can’t do this alone.”
